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Vyxyn in Stream of Consciousness

Stop the Cycle

We cannot help the situations that traumatized us as children.

Those things are not our fault.

However, as adults, we have to learn from that, let it go and move on.

Everyone suffered some kind of abuse in some form growing up. No ones trauma is worse than anybody elses, trauma is trauma. Of course there are degrees, but that doesnt make ones trauma more than someone elses. Its not a contest.

This doesnt give you the right to take out your anger and frustration on those close to you.

You wouldnt treat a boss or friend with that kind of behaviour, stop treating those close to you that way.

You stopped being a victim when you start treating others the same way you were treated when you were a child.

As an adult you have the power to change and be better than your abusers, you have to decide to change.

Iether you are happy staying the victim or you have to change to stop it, its very simple.

Continuing the same patterns your abusers used on you is repeating the abuse.

Stop the cycle!!