Real is

Real is being the best in drama because your entire life has been one carefully scripted act. The moments when you are not putting on a show are so few that during those moments, you don't know who you are. Real is being able to twist your words, and use every advantage, because that's how you survived. 

Real is not inherently moral, kind, or heartwarming, but it can be these things. For me, real is staying up until the early am hours reading and writing poetry because it is one of the times when being scriptless makes perfect sense.