I Cannot Believe

The words spoken that I find ridiculous would be "I'll be okay" or "You'll get through it". I am not sure if it's just me but if you've never been in this situation or something damn near identical you should not be so pushy with your beliefs. I admire your hope but if I don't look okay chances are I feel like nothing can ever be okay again. So telling me it will or I will just makes me cold and cynical.