Have your cake or eat it??

It's a piece of cake; by that I mean to say it was easy as pie.

Being decisive has always been one of my strengths; like recognizing strengths in people, and my skill for making lists, so why should thus be any different.

It came down to really needing to know myself and what I would do in a given situation. Just like when they say you gotta be true to your heart!

So when that happened at my wedding, we'll, at the reception, my choices were obvious.

Do I have my cake?

I mean; its my family, they are my cake if any cake is mine, shiit.

So yeah I had to think 'Do I have my cake or eat it?'.

Obviously that cakes my family so I knew I had to not eat them. I wanted to keep it like that old saying;

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush? Something like that. Well I knew I'd have them if I don't eat them.

I thought of it like a special diet. A cake free diet.

Then I looked right into my heart to be sure and I remembered something.

You can't spell 'diet' without 'die' first; and honey, im a survivor!

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