Feel your own feelings, not mine.

Don't say you relate to me. You simply cannot. You have not lived my life experiences. You cannot know exactly how I feel.

If you say you understand, that I will accept. You can comprehend my feelings, but you don't relate to them. You don't relate because you can't feel them. You cannot feel my feelings. The feelings that are uniquely mine. You have your own, why don't you feel those?

So no more saying you relate to me, you just understand me as much as you possibly can.