that’s one way to say it

Sacrifice, decision making, working against selfishness

and knowing that what's best for one ought to also benefit

the others that surround them, at least so they feel known

we each of us relate this message and we show it when we can

by being there, sharing fun, holding hands through tragedies

and teaching, guiding one another,

into and through a good adulthood.

sometimes feeling let down, drudging

through another person's flaws

and trying not to wound one's self

through exposure to those truths

that must be accepted,

cannot be corrected,

and exist as a part of a tapestry

all of which is purposeful

and all of which has beauty.

sometimes it is work

sometimes nothing's gained

feeling worried, wrong, and useless

feeling often-times, betrayed

and others can't predict that, no.

though we all know the game,

when you tie yourself to something else,

the stronger often wins the trade.

But the comfort in the cold of night

of another body breathing silently,

the constant motion, without intention

is astounding in simplicity

and brings a warm belonging feeling

that comes with familiarity,

friendship, love, togetherness

bond us all,

effortlessly.