Why are we Harsh with Those we Love

My judgement has been harsh lately.

From where does this stem?

I came here to Love others not to find fault or defend.

The outward reflects the inward.

When judging myself it's hard to win.

And those closest?

Reflect us

Because we see in others what's present within.

I see my loved ones self doubt and swiftly I begin...

To try and fix this problem there.

Rather than see how I'm buying in.

"You're not accepting that you're enough" I beg to my kin.

It's easier to say they're wrong than to see my only true sin

I am not accepting myself.

I am not letting Love in.